A Pale Pink City

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Month: January 2015

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Yeah.

That crazy keyboard smashing was totally necessary.

Omg the old guy from argentina is calling and omg lets just say i am not having it. It really is super annoying and i know im being kinda rude too because lets face i can make pretty good small talk but NO.

just NO.

like is it a bad thing that i’m single? Am i already that far gone that i have to resort to these old geezers who don’t even speak English or care to know about me?!?

I mean i can’t help but feel like wth when all he wants to talk about is how great he is and why can’t i speak to him in korean or spanish?

Well i’m sorry but i just can’t make connections with people from korea, i.e. certain older people or people in general that do not speak english because that is the language of my heart and if i am trying to communicate my thoughts and feelings while having to translate into korean/spanish/chinese as he so “thoughtfully” suggested then i’m sorry but i’m just going to shut down.

i have trouble enough communicating in english.

And lets just say, being a kid in the 90s and growing up here, attending school in the US is a huge part of who i am, like if we dont have that in common, what are we going to talk about?

I mean i dont gossip much, and spiritual talk is fine but you jeed to have common interedts as well, kwim?

Argh.

I hope he gets the hint.

I’m just super not interested!!! 🙁

Please, let me start something with someone i actually like for once!! (And like not 이방인)

(Omg! I saw looney at the willowbrook mall on monday which was mlk day and omg he was with his fiance/gf but omg he looked TERRIBLE like his hair was a curly but flat mess, saggy skin, weight gain, 2 BALD SPOTS ON THE BACK OF HIS HEAD and was he always so short?? Even still i had the flutters and had to look away/ walk away fast because i didnt want him to see me with acne/fat/dressed like a hobo. Because even after all that, he is still LOONEY and that makes him special, u know?? Omg but it put me into a melancholy mood all week 🙁 i still kinda miss him.)

Hello. Goodbye.

ho hum.

yesterday JAF got hitched.

so i guess this is really good bye.

but anyways…..

its ok.

today was our Englewood Chinese meeting and my sisters came today.

And also it was my dear JH’s talk. meeting was nice.

in the AM we were going to go out in service but no one came out. my sisters and i enjoyed breakfast at sunmerrys and then borrowed a movie for later, Maze Runner- apparently it’s good but i’m keeping my expectations quite low.

(i mean i read the books and the books were mediocre at best so yeah, if you keep your expectations rock bottom, things can only go up, yeah?)

Anyways, then we picked up an ipad case- my darling leopard print kate spade case was just SO HEAVY- like seriously heavy that i just couldn’t stand it any longer so i replaced it with a heavy duty functional and light black case 🙂

the real funny part of the day was when we sat down for the service meeting-since we couldn’t do service in the AM you know?

So obviously, my sisters and i are expecting to be placed in the same service group but D has other plans- namely have them branch out and he places them with Q and P

ahahaahahaha

it cracked me up and they were so, so shocked and flustered and flabbergasted, OMG it cracked me up.

So i sent them on their merry way but meh, they eventually ended up not doing service with them as Q and P had to leave around 4PM and suprise suprise when we were done with the tacos it was 4 lol

(the taco place was ah-may-zing! even though the onions were super, super spicy- the guac was fresh made on the spot and the meat was seasoned just so and YUM. oh and the spice was ON FIRE!!)

So they ended up doing service with me and JH and TR which was a ton of fun although since the afore mentioned tacos were so spicy it gave my sisters upset stomachs and we ended up quitting around 6PM.

ahahahahaha oh man. would hve been a good opportunity for the sisters to branch out doing service with Q and P.

Next time.

Atleast they got to do service with JH and TR- both are really, really solid brothers.

JH- i got to say he is very, very good. zealous in the ministry, diligent with his responsibilities and super considerate. Like korean level considerate- he’s got 눈치 which is pretty rare for an american guy so its comfortable around him and he’s surprisingly sweet although he has a snarky/dry sense of humor

TR i’m not too sure, i’ve only known him since august but he seems very sweet as well, always willing to go out in the ministry and speak to people which is admirable. And that accent! British accents are always so easy on the ears 🙂

but yeah, the sisters were mega- impressed with the boys because they were willing to go out late like past 6PM and i so would have gone out later if you know, my sisters both didn’t have to use the BR. lol!!

like in the korean hall the brothers rarely come out in even afternoon service and service late into the evening?? Um yeah, dream on.

but not to hate on the koreans.

OH YEAH!!

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my parents are trying to set me up with this old brother from arentina!! >:0

Like WHY?!?!?! he’s 8 years older than me and doesn’t speak english and omg omg omg i think i’ve made myself pretty clear but i don’t want to be with someone for the rest of my life if we can’t communicate!!

Year End Review: 2014

So 2014 was a busy year, it flew by super quick…

Let’s break it down month by month:

January:

The parents, the grandparents and my 2nd Aunt and Uncle went on a first class trip to Cancun, Mexico and OMG we the kids (pretty much my sister and I and the cousins) were hit by a gigantic mess!!

Like literally the DAY THAT THEY LEFT there was a gas main leak/electrical fire under Main St where of course the main problem was at my uncle’s store and my dad’s store.

How does that even happen?? I mean they are close but still a good 100ft. away from each other!!

So we open our store and are immediately hit by a blast of fumes- gasoline fumes to be exact- and our eyes are immediately watery.

PLUS there’s a haze of smoke all over the store.

I panic immediately- we open all the doors and i get on the phone with PSE&G-don’t even ask why I didn’t just call the FD right away but I called PSE&G who of course, immediately told us to evacuate the building and call 911.

So in the coldest days of the year ( like 17F) we are outside literally chattering from the cold while the FD arrives.

They come and immediately cordon off the entire area around our store and start investigating.

Meanwhile our cousin B is like outside because his own store is w/o electricity and is freezing and w/e no other stores are open on Main St. because there is no power in the entire street. WTH?

Finally like 3 hrs/later the FD and the police and the PSE&G people are unable to find the source of the gas- they place these gigantic fans outside our store and bring the levels down to safe levels and gives us the ok to return to the store.

By this time it is like 1pm and we realize-OMG the internet is not working i.e no credit card transactions.

So now i’m going nuts, on the phone with Cable/Optimum trying to get our internet operational and in the midst of this crazyiness, suprise suprise, we get a call from our parents telling us to check on B and J as there is something going on in their store.

OMG due to the power being shut off, the pipes BURST. alsdkfjslakkjflasjg!!! And because the cousins were panicked, they didn’t know what to do so they called the Fire Department AGAIN!!

And they deemed it a fire hazard as the water from the burst pipes ran into the electrical wiring.

aldkfjalskkdjflkasghlkdsjflksj!!! why is this happening now?!?!

so we call the parents in a panic, they call our 4th uncle who happens to be an electrical technician (or used to be in Korea) but by now the PD and FD have declared the building a fire hazard requiring tons of permits and construction-and because of that we find out that Casa Bonita is going to be closed for at least 3 days.

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Poor B sits in a corner and cries. I cry for him too inside.

And the rest of the week until the parents return is spent trying to rectify the situation- can you believe i almost lost my mind trying to fix the internet situation and it was just that the router was broken due to the power outage on day one. what do you know, as soon as i put a new router on, the internet works.

1 day before the parents return.

figures.

And the rest of January is pretty much a blur, trying to get my uncle’s store reopened. 🙁

February

Pretty much a slow month. My sisters and I continue to go to Carmen’s for exercise with A.

I start aggressively job hunting and go to a few interviews.

Everyone only wants to hire full time nurses.

I get called for an interview with Horizon BCBS and go all the way to Trenton.

I am hopeful but not really.

Otherwise it was super snowy.

I see JAF at Patterson one night while I am trying to check in, and he looks pretty spiffy.

March

 March I get a call and I’m hired by HBCBS for their MLTSS program!

Hurray! (whatever that is lol)

Its another busy month of service, we have the campaign for the memorial, C/O visit and then a circuit assembly.

C gets married to F!! Or JF lol and becomes CF 선 that fell apart as soon as i got there THANK GOODNESS lol but i was pretty sick the entire time i was there. 🙁

But just staying in LA was wonderful, even though the plane trip was pretty arduous.

This is when I get a mini crush on KB lolol omg I’m so easy!!

Dinner at Mitsuwa after Sunday and guess who??

Also i go to LA with my dad and J because of a

April

First day on the job.

The first couple of days are pretty easy. And lots of fun.

And i have a little gathering at my place for the Ws who got baptized all toghether and that’s pretty much it, service and work, service and work. 🙂

May

May is pretty much the same old, turns out there is a 2 month orientation period in HBSBC which is pretty much HBCBS paying us to sit in an office for 8 hrs/week and learn about corporate policies and benefits and everything is always changing and i’m always lost lol

And month i go to Patterson and take care of a dear brother who was actively dying.

It was very sad. That is all.

And then i went to the Memorial Day BBQ and got super mad at Sultana as previously stated on this blog lol

June

1 week of training down in Trenton which was tiring but atleast very informative.

Then the international conventions to the US started which was exciting for all of us- although it was when the KOREANS came.

UGH.

Please refer to the entry expressed written for them.

And X and W M came to stay also with us which was a ton fun. 🙂

But man those Koreans were pretty annoying and cause a bit of a rift btw us and my parents but that’s old hat now.

July

Start of the MLTSS program!
OMG i just want to poke my eyeballs out the workload seems crazy!!

But at the same time its not too bad lol

And I threw the baby shower for MJJ 🙂

And it was adorable and kind of a different baby shower from what i’m used to but it was still tons of fun 🙂

Mom and dad went to Viriginia- oh there was a bit of a hubbabaloo concerning who was going to go where and what not but umm w/e  why is L inviting people who aren’t even in Teaneck Korean Congregation when she’s in the getting invited 쳐지 anyways?? I don’t understand.

August

2 Regional Conventions right after another! Korean and Chinese!! 🙂

And still pretty busy but still slower than it was in July.

And K and J’s goodbye party as they were moving to China.

September

Hmmm…can’t really remember much from september.

I went to the gardens for sculpture with my mom and J (sorry H!!) and it was a lovely day/evening.

The Amazing Race.

Gilead Graduation

October

Annual meeting. 🙂

H’s suprise party! and A’s suprise bridal shower!

Dress shopping for A’s wedding-once my sisters and I drove out to NY to get a dress after meeting lol but i settled (or rather reached lol!) for this beautiful Erin Fetherston dress

Mom and Dad went to Hawaii and thoroughly enjoyed themselves 🙂

November

A+D wedding! Korean circuit assembly! & Chinese circuit assembly, i think??

c/o visit!

Erhmmm i don’t remember?? lol this is kinda sad.

Obligatory Thanksgiving w/family.

December

Family night!

1 week and some days off 🙂

and busy busy busy bee

 

That pretty much sums up my 2014.

You can totally tell i got lazy/tired of typing.

Also, 2014 was the year of the deaths 🙁

-ㅇㄱㅈ 자매’s death due to colo-rectal cancer

-ㅈ자매’s husband’s passing due to stage IV lung cancer (in 3 weeks too!) 🙁

-FR due to cancer

-ㅅㅇ언니’s dad’s death due to MI/old age

-J 오빠’s dad’s death due to MI

-RL due to dementia

and like 5 of my members but hipaa so enough said.

Here’s to a happy, satisfying 2015!!

Afterall this is MY year. the year I turn 27.

27!!!

 

OMG

 

xoxo

 

 

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