Ermmm…

Ok so this is actually quite embarrassing but eh here goes.

This is a list of qualities that i am looking for in a potential spouse that i will be praying to Jehovah about.

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-he MUST be a spiritual person. Like he needs to be able to take charge and be a real guiding force so we can work together as a couple to serve Jehovah. I am lacking the confidence to lead my future husband (fh from know on) spritually, like that would be exhuasting. I mean i can help him when he gets tired and vice versa i mean come on thats what spouses are for, but it cant be all the time. I can’t be the one saying, “ok honey time to read he Bible, time to go to meeting, time for family worship”. We both need to be spiritually STRONG.

-he must be kind. Like no joke the brother i marry has to be kind, gentle and compassionate. And understanding of my crazy mood swings. I can be super sweet and chill and then just totally flip out but he has to be understaning of that, and willing to listen to my sometimes crazy feelings.

-humor and funniness is very important as i am not a funny person i need someone who’d make me laugh. And who laughs easily as well.

-diligence is key. Must be able to follow through on promises made and able to prioritize. Like if there is a fun event happening but he has to work on a talk then he must be able to show restraint and work on the talk and refrain from the activity.

-easy to talk too or someone who has a lot to say as i am pretty quiet and do not talk much. I need someone talkative or i have to do the talking in which case he has to be a pretty good conversationalist anyways lol

– someone who wont get mad at my shopping. Honestly i am a woman and sometimes we like to go shopping even if we do not buy anything but seriously he cannot be one of those husbands that complain thd second the woman tries on a dress lol i mean i will try to like whatever it is that you like too, i promise.

-supportive of my family. Obviously my family is very important to me. So he needs to get along with my family and hopefully i get along with his, i will try my hardest.

-must be willing to work. I mean i earn pretty well and we can be comfortable on my salary alone, not going to lie, but I WILL NOT TOLERATE A MOOCH. I mean seriously, work at a gas station, retail, wait tables…SOMETHING. dont just expect me to bring home the bacon.

*this is, of course if i am to be staying out here, obviously if i marry a bethelite or travellign overseer things will be different

PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES

(Which are decidedly not as important as the personality traits listed above but important just the same)

– taller than me. With heels on. Not the crazy megatall heels but atleast regular mid sized heels. So lets say at least 5’10”.

– nice smile. I want to be able to gaze at the fh and like what i see esp when he smiles. Doesnt necessarily have to be super good looking although that would be nice but i have to find him attractive.

-a classy style will overlook a multitude of physical imperfections, especially style with impeccable grooming, i.e. no overgrown nose hairs or uncombed hair…etc

– hair would be much appreciated

-some weight but not overweight. I mean who doesnt appreciate a well defined body but hey, beggars can,t be choosers, as long as he is not obese that’s fine by me

INTERESTS AND LIFESTYLE

– must like korean food. Obviously i am korean so he must like korean food, culture…etc

-must not mind shopping

– must be open to trying new things. Like variety is the spice of life, i am always looking to try something new. At least rry it once and then another time before you write it off otherwise how do you know you truly do not like it?

-interest in the chinese field is a MUST. obviously i am in chinese and it is imperative that we dtay in the chinese field. And maybe eventually move to wherebthe need is greater…

-open to missionary work as that is my greatest dream

-or c/o work, that sounds amazing!

-relaxed outlook on life and willing to travel

Aaannnddd thats it.

for now lol

xo